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Yansıtma: Psikopatoloji ve Projektif Testler Dergisi; 2014;(21):9-18
"Cinsel Eğitim" Mümkün mü? Psikanalitik Bir Yaklaşım
F Akkapulu
"Çocuk cinselliği ile birlikte doğar" der Freud. Cinselliği ile doğan meraklı çocuk merakı sayesinde edindiği birikimlerini, deneyimlerini unutur. Bu unutma bir ihmal değildir, ilk çocukluk deneyimlerini gizleyen özgün bir unutmadır. Ve cinsel eğitim vermek niyetinde olanlar bu erken evre etkilerini yadsıyabilmektedirler. Eğitimcilerin bu yadsımaları da cinsel eğitimi amaçlarından uzaklaştıran temel sebeplerdendir. Çocuk cinsel teorilere sahiptir. Çocuğun bu cinsel teorileri ile karşılaşıldığında yapılacak şey teknik olarak çok nettir: Çocuk merakı ve teorileri ile ilgilenirken gereksiz bastırmalardan korunmalı ve cinsellik onu tehlikeli gibi gösteren gizliliğinden arındırılmalıdır. Bunun yolu da çocuğun ihtiyacı olan bilgiyi almak için duyduğu arzusu ölçüsünde bilgilendirilmesi ile mümkün olacaktır. Böylece bu arzuların çocukluk unutmasına maruz kalabilmesine ve bu unutmanın başarılı olamadığı durumlarda da çocuğun yanlış bir utanç içine girmesine olanak sağlamış oluruz. Tekniği zorlu kılan ise bu süreçteki yetişkin kişinin (ebeveyn, öğretmen, eğitimci vb) kendi ruhsal yapılanmasının nitelikleri olacaktır. Öğrenmenin her aşamasında tartışılmaz gerçeklerle "uygun doyumlar" bulması sağlanan çocuğun merakı çeşitli müdehaleler nedeniyle ileri düzeylere taşınamaz. Çocuğun bireysel öyküsü dikkate alınmadan cinsel yaşam konusunda çocuğa dayatılan cinsel bilgler her alanda öğrenmeyi en iyi ihtimalle yavaşlatan bir etki yaratacaktır. Matematiği sevmeyen, paragraf sorularını anlamayan ama ezberde başarılı olan pekçok öğrenci bu suygusal yolculupu epey derinden deneyimlemişlerdir.
Is "Sexual Education" Possible? A Psychoanalytical Approach
"A child comes into the world with his/her sexuality" says Freud. The child who is born with curiosity forgets his or her experiences and knowledge that he/she has gained thanks to this curiosity. Such an omission cannot be called ignorance. This is a unique oblivion which hides the experinces which have been gained in the early childhood. The ones who intend to provide sexual education may deny these early period influences. Such a denial of educatiors (pedogogues) is one of the main reasons that estrages sexual education from its purposes. Since the child owns these sexual theories; what needs to be done when encountered with these is quite clear. The child must be protected against unneccessary suppression while she/he is busy with his/her curiosity and theories as well as privacy of sexuality. Elimination of what is supposed to be latent should be made available by informing the child in accordance with his/her desires to get guidance he or she needs. By doing so, it becomes possible to expose these desires to childhood amnesia. When such an oblivion falls, the child is given the opportunity to feel a mistaken embarassment. What makes the technique challenging is the characteristics of the mental structures of adults (parents, teachers, pedagogue etc). The curiosity of a child who is allowed to find proper satisfactions in every stage of learning by indisputable realities can will have a slowing influence on every field of learning with the most optimistic prediction if his or her personal story is not taken into consideration. many students who do not like maths, are not able to comprehend paragraph questions but who are good at memorizing have deeply experinced such a mental journey.

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